District 25
NEBridge - Feedback from Players: August-September 2022

At the beginning of every month the Regional Director, Mark Aquino, sends out congratulatory emails to New England bridge players who have advanced in rank during the previous month. Some of them send responses, and Mark selects a few of the most interesting ones to be posted on NEBridge.org. Below are a few memorable ones from players who achieved a new rank between August and September of 2022.

I learned to play bridge in college, but after graduate school I did not play for many years due to work and child-rearing. I started playing bridge again about 5 years ago, and I went to the Bridge Spot in Woburn without a partner on a weekend afternoon. I was paired with Walter Driscoll, and I enjoyed playing with him so much that I have been playing with him ever since! Walter and I were later paired with Barbara and Moses Liskov for a Swiss Team event at the Bridge Spot, and our team has gone on to play at several tournaments, including the GNT in Providence. I won the remainder of my Life Master gold points at the recent Warwick regional with Walter and the Liskovs… it was special to reach this milestone with friends!

As far as what would be helpful… since the Bridge Spot closed, there are no weekend games in the Boston area. This is a huge loss to folks who cannot play during the day due to work and/or childcare. There are also very few evening games. If the District/Unit could encourage clubs to have weekend and evening games (perhaps help by subsidizing?), that would be a big win for folks in my demographic. Playing online has lots of advantages, but you are very unlikely to meet new partners and teammates that way, and the social aspect of the game is largely absent online.

Christina Roberts
Arlington, MA

I was introduced to Bridge in the late 60s while in England with my husband who was on a post-doc in Cambridge. My teachers were American wives of scientists who were bored (no one had a work permit) and needed a fourth. We returned to the US with 2 small children and after I got a job, I realized that sadly there was no time for Bridge. So I did not play for 27 years! I read the bridge column in the paper every day and dreamed about playing. Was asking myself: if I could play as much as I wanted, would I ever get tired of it? Got back to the game when I retired and have been testing that question for the last 26 years… So far the answer is no, never.

Eva Landy
Barrington, RI

I learned to play bridge in college, although I played very little. Then family and career intervened. Fifty years later, I was scheduled to take a cruise on a small ship that had been damaged crossing the Atlantic. The ship was docked in Nova Scotia and some local fellows were welding a steel plate over a hole in the hull. This went on for three days. The tour had exhausted things to see locally, and so folks were on their own for the third afternoon. One of the travelers was attempting to put together two tables for bridge. She had seven payers and was looking for an eighth. My wife suggested that I be the eighth. I joined the game which woke my long dormant joy of playing. When we returned home, I performed an internet search and found the Northampton Bridge Club. I telephoned and learned the club had a beginners' game every Tuesday evening as well as a sanctioned game. I was warmly welcomed at the beginners' game. You would need to search long and hard to find a beginner as green as me. I had never seen a bidding box and knew no conventions. I played regularly in the beginner's game, but after a couple of months I decided to play in the sanctioned game.

The sanctioned game was very challenging at first. The experienced players proved very difficult to beat. Occasionally, my partner and I would win a quarter or a half a point. Playing just once a week, it seemed that 500 points was unattainable. As a result of tips, study, and the kindness of many players, my game improved. A few years ago, the club started a second weekly game which doubled the chances for scoring points. As my point total rose, I began to play in a few sectional and regional tournaments, thinking maybe I could reach 500 points. And now in my 80th year, I have achieved Life Master.

Barry LaFlam
Southampton, MA

I am still smiling and thrilled. I told my friend here, I started playing when I was 16 and now SIXTY years later I become a life master!! I am still proud!

Ann Reydel
Chatham, MA

My "Bridge" story started when I was 12 and my mother introduced my brother and me to the world of Bridge; she said something that has stuck with me all these years, that learning to play bridge is socially very important, and how true has that been?

When I retired at age 66 I was staying in my home in Mexico, and a golf partner, Jimmy Szarka from Canada, said I should join the local Bridge club, called the Lake Chapala Duplicate Bridge Club, and he was looking for a Bridge partner. That was in 2014, and so I did, and met some wonderful people.

On returning to my home in NH I joined the Amesbury Bridge Club, in Massachusetts which was run by Bob Bertoni, and started to learn all the new Bridge bidding systems, he was a wonderful Tutor. My Partner on most occasions has been Bill Sert originally from Turkey, and we played in Woburn Ma, and at the Marblehead Bridge club with the incomparable Harriet Leavitt.

Then COVID hit the world of Bridge, and we all retired to the internet but played with our old partners every week.

What can we do to get Club Bridge back and improve the game for all our members? I think we should remind our members of all the friendships that they have created by Face-to-Face Bridge. I now have Bridge Friends and playing Partners in many Canadian Cities, including Halifax, Montreal, Calgary, Vancouver, and across New England, and Mexico, and I would never have met them if it were not for joining and playing at local clubs and competitions.

We need to stress the social aspect of the game and the friendships and memories that arise out of playing Bridge Face to Face, rather than online. I know online is easier, less time-consuming, and maybe less money, but what value do you put on the Friendship and camaraderie of meeting and playing Bridge with like-minded Club Members?

I have attached a picture of me with Sonny Calvert from Memphis, whom I met and played Bridge with in Chapala, Mexico, and who is in Italy. We played today and won our division. How great is that? Sonny is on the left, and we hope to team up and play in a Bridge competition in San Miguel De Allende next year.

Other Bridge friends and partners are:
* Debbie Camp-Simpson from England, now living in Ajijic, Mexico;
* Vincent Botha, from South Africa, living in Calgary;
* John Gray, from the UK, living in Ajijic, Mexico;
* Jimmy Szarka, Ontario, Canada..
All thanks to playing Bridge.

Julian Dunlop
Kensington, NH

Lin Li achieved Life Master status in 2021 and wrote an article entitled " A Promise that Tripled: A Memorable Journey to Life Master". She asked us not to use her photo. Here is her article:

In 2017 one of my boys began college, and the other began his masters program. I made them a promise: “While you two strive to get your diplomas, I will become a Life Master at bridge while working full time in pathology.”

I discovered bridge in 1986 during my medical studies in Guangzhou, China. At a party a pair of gentlemen needed a pair for their new game, bridge! I jumped in with my best friend. “No big deal,” I told her. We heard a cursory explanation of the rules. Bridge felt just like BaiFen, a popular card game in my hometown that also pits one pair against another. How wrong I was! We made a ton of mistakes, but we had hours of tremendous fun. Bridge was much more complex in terms of rules, interaction, and communication.

Afterwards, one of the gentlemen lent me a book: Bridge for Beginners, which was the first bridge book (as far as I knew) in China in the 1980s.

Because of my career, family, and transition to the U.S., I put bridge on hold after Medical School. In the winter of 2008, however, a flyer promoting the Continuing Education Program at Amity High School caught my eye. I felt the embers of my passion for the game rekindled. Hoping to learn bridge terms in English, I registered. In the intermediate class I was very fortunate to have Rita as instructor. Four other students and I formed a social group to extend our learning and practice outside of class. This helped me tremendously in understanding the intricacies of playing bridge in America, including table etiquette.

I hungered for more sophisticated bidding when Mr. Alvin Frohman, a bridge instructor in Long Island, NY, entered my life. He taught me 2/1, as well as Cappelletti, New Minor Forcing, and other conventions at a community center in Great Neck, NY, during the winter of 2015. I am most grateful that he introduced me to the ACBL and helped me sign up for a local club game the following March. I played my first ever club game in BRIDGExpress on March 31, 2015, and I won the C strat with 1.63 black points!

During this period I also experienced the excitement of playing ACBL games on BBO while commuting to NY each day. Not long afterwards Mrs. Lynn Greenspan joined our social ridge group and changed the entire dynamic. She is an enthusiastic bridge player who has a strict, precise bidding style. We decided to try out our pairing in local club games. We ventured to Rick Townsend’s Bridge Forum and built our partnership there. Eventually we traveled to many tournaments together.

Mrs. Greenspan is also a serious tennis player. When the tennis season started, her schedule often conflicted with our weekly evening club game. Fortunately Mr. Robert Silverstein kindly offered to partner with me in December 2016. A serious and experienced bridge player, he set a great example for a constructive partnership. In our first email communication about my convention card, Bob responded with seven written questions. None of my partners had ever done this. Nervous that I might not be able to play with him long, I answered his questions as honestly as I could.

We played together in Rick’s Bridge Forum until November 2020. Our email correspondence contained questions about the hands we had played, general bidding concepts, and his expert analysis of unusual hands. His wisdom and patience helped me refine my bidding and expand my knowledge. I was deeply saddened when we ended our partnership during the COVID-19 crisis, but I respected his choice wholeheartedly.

As time flew by, the promise I had made to my children weighed heavier each year. The ACBL ranks required gold, red, and silver masterpoints that were awarded at tournaments that often required extensive travel. It was incredibly difficult to incorporate them into my full-time work schedule. Mark Blumenthal came to the rescue around 2018. On many weekends we drove together to towns in CT, NY, NJ, MA, and RI, struggling to win even small fractions of points. Even the occasional “point”-less trip was engraved in my memory.

At the end of 2019, I became an NABC Master with 494 total points, but I still had only 24.84G, 30.8R, and 40.64S. With my son’s graduation looming in just 18 months, it seemed impossible to accomplish my goal, particularly with my full work schedule. I redoubled my efforts. I checked ACBL.org for information on all STaC, sectionals and regionals in the New England area and marked them on my calendar. I planned to adjust my work schedule to attend as many tournaments as possible in 2020.

The COVID-19 pandemic seemed to destroy my momentum before I got started. However, to my surprise, the ACBL quickly launched its online platform with a regional in June of 2020. Perhaps the impossible was possible in the ACBL's new era.

I became increasingly optimistic until the August “Virtual Vacation” regional-rated events, when I realized that each regional competition had become an international event open to experts, stars, and pros. Scoring gold points had never been harder!

Moreover, after August 2020 I could no longer play in Gold Rush games. I reached out to Mr. Yeong-Long (Y.L) Shiue from the Hartford Bridge Club. I was shocked when he told me that we had to play in Top-Flight Pairs in the “Fall into Bridge” tournament in October 2020. Mr. Shiue generously offered his help, encouraged my learning, discussed the many mistakes I made, and kept playing with me in online regionals and weekend clubs.

On February 18, 2021, we played in the 5:45 Side Game and came out on top with 72.4%. That brought the final 6.81 gold that made me a LM and a Bronze LM simultaneously.

Promise kept! No words could describe my happiness. After all, what could be more important for a mom than keeping a promise to her children? In recognition of this incredible journey, my boys made a beautiful frame for my LM certificate.

So many people have accompanied and helped me throughout this wonderful journey. To them, I am forever grateful!

Lin Li
Woodbridge, CT